You say yes and you are really excited to get married to him. You plan a beautiful wedding and everything seems to go really well. Until his previous "quirks" seem to become more and more extreme. You start living together and he expects you to do all the cleaning and the cooking. He also becomes way more controlling about your clothes. He wants you to be dressed like a 50s housewife. You start working less and less hours and eventually you get fired, which you are pretty sure Andrew had a hand in. He becomes slowly more and more controlling. Every night he wants to look through your phone to see what you've been up to. One time he gets so angry about something you watched online he throws the phone through the room and breaks it. Afterwards he tells you he has decided you don't need a phone anymore and he never buys you a new one. He calls at random moments during the day to the house to make sure you are there. Slowly you never leave the house anymore.
There is no-one in your life but your husband and he dictates everything you do. You spend all your days scrubbing down the house and cooking. He wants everything to be perfectly clean. When he comes home from work he will walk with you through the whole house to do a check and if you have missed a spot or didn't do something perfectly you will get a punishing. He will take a belt and hit you 5 times for every mistake. He also expects you to be ready for sex at any moment. It's your responsibility to keep him satisfied sexually. After you've made breakfast, shined his shoes and got made up, you wake him up by giving him a blowjob. He will call you sometimes in advance when he has had a frustrating day to make sure you are in position to get fucked when he gets home. You don't dare to go against anything he says. This is what is expected from a good housewife anyway.